People often suggest that I should move to a cheaper place to save money and regain my financial independence. But I’ve always been a city person, and I can’t imagine giving up the thrill of city life just to save a few bucks. I was born in Manila, and I’ve lived in cities like Lusaka, Kobe, Kuala Lumpur, Taipei, New York City, and now San Francisco. The idea of moving to a smaller town or a cheaper country doesn’t appeal to me, especially with my kids in school.
I did live in a suburb for a while during high school, in McLean, Virginia, which is a suburb of Washington D.C. But I didn’t enjoy it much. There wasn’t a lot to do, and I missed the energy of the city.
Living in a big city isn’t for everyone, though. If you’re someone who thrives on the energy of others, you might love it. But if you prefer a quieter pace of life, or if you’ve already achieved financial independence, you might prefer a smaller town. There’s no right or wrong answer, it’s all about personal preference.
I remember when I moved from Williamsburg, Virginia, where I went to college, to New York City. It was the most exciting time of my life. I lived in a tiny studio apartment and worked in the Equities department at Goldman. The energy of the city was intoxicating. I loved the nightlife, the food, the diversity of the people, and the constant buzz of activity.
But after two years, I lost my job and had to move. I ended up in San Francisco, which was a big change. It was much quieter and slower-paced than New York, but I found a better work-life balance there. I also discovered a love for outdoor activities like skiing and tennis, which I hadn’t had time for in New York.
Despite the slower pace, I still find San Francisco exciting. The tech boom, the sports teams, the startup scene, and the beautiful surroundings all contribute to the city’s appeal. And while it’s expensive, it’s still cheaper than Manhattan.
I’m not ready to leave the city life behind yet. I love the excitement, the opportunities, and the energy. But I know that one day, when I’m older and ready for a quieter pace of life, I’ll probably move to a smaller city like Honolulu. Until then, I’m going to enjoy everything that San Francisco has to offer.
So, do you enjoy living in a big city? Do you think the cost is worth it? Do your preferences change as you get older or as your family circumstances change? What are some of your favorite cities? I’d love to hear your thoughts.
